Gay Dad Photo Essays

Top Gay Dad Photo Essays of 2018!

This year, we brought you photo round-ups of Halloween costumes, back-to-school poses, holiday pics and so much more. Enjoy some of our top photo essays from 2018 all over again! And get ready for more in 2019...

If there's one thing we've learned about our followers, it's this: you like pics of loving gay dads with their kids as much as we enjoy sharing them! Here were some of your favorites of this past year.


Our Favorite Gay Dad Family Costumes of 2018!

Halloween is basically like the Super Bowl plus New Year's Eve rolled in to one for gay dads... we take it very seriously, and this year was no exception! Every time we think we've seen the best of the best for Halloween, the following year tops the last! These gay dad families look FANG-TASTIC! #SquadGhouls

From the devilishly cute, to the howlingly humerus, to the ghoulishly grotesque, you have all outdone yourselves this year, well done dads. See all the photos here

8 Black Gay Dads Share What Black History Month Means to Their Families

As Black History Month comes to a close, we asked our community a simple question: as a Black gay dad, what does this month mean to you, your family, and your community? The answers we got back were reflective, poignant and deeply moving. See all the photos here.

These Gay Dads and Their Kids Are Ready for Back-to-School Day! (Or Are They?)

These gay dads were smart enough to snap some back-to-school pics with their kids *before* the waterworks started. See all the photos here.

22 Pics of Gay Men Before and After They Became Adoptive Dads

As gay dads, we all have our stories about how we became parents, whether it was through adoption, foster-care, surrogacy, or straight relationships (to name a few more common paths). But sometimes it's worth taking a look back at our before-kids photos, just to then look at our family photos again, and be extra thankful this Fathers' Day.

Here's a walk down memory lane for some of the dads in our community: see all the before and after photos.

You Know You're a Gay Dad When...

Stereotypes about gay dads are horrible, aren't they? Just plain wrong. And NO ONE should indulge them! That is, of course, unless you're a gay dad yourself, in which case: go for it, daddy! Here's our attempt at some gay dad levity... Our roundup of moments on the 'Gram that we believe provide irrefutable, scientific proof of your gay dad status...

You know you're a gay dad when.... See all the photos here.

11 Reasons We're Loving Insta-Hunks "Dads Not Daddies"

We've been following the parenting adventures of Devon and Rob, two dads based in Salt Lake City, for some time now as they raise their two sons. With 148K followers on Instagram, apparently we're not the only ones! If you're not convinced you should follow them yet, we rounded up some of our favorite pics of the insta-couple below. Enjoy!

See all the photos here.

10 Times Gay Dads Slayed Pregnancy Announcements Pics

If there's an Instagram moment at stake, it's pretty safe to assume gay dads are gonna crush the competition. (See: gay dads being extra, in the best way, on Halloween, Easter, and even National Superhero Day ;) So it should come as a surprise to absolutely no one that gay dads-to-be absolutely slay their pregnancy announcement pics.

See all the photos here.

Cutest Pumpkins in the Patch: Gay Dads and Their Kids

Pumpkin spiced lattes ain't got nothing on this favorite fall outing: the annual trip to the pumpkin patch! While pumpkins are nice and all, let's be real: we're into this autumnal outing for the photo op. ;) Thanks to these dads who shared their pics with us!

See all the photos here.

Best Pics of Gay Dads Celebrating Pride Month With Their Kids!

We asked dads to send us their pride celebrations pics, and they didn't disappoint! We received pics from all over the country and world, from Tel Aviv to Toronto, and everywhere in between!

See all the photos here.

Gay Dads and Their Kids Who Sleighed Their Photo Op With Santa This Year

The countdown to Christmas is on! To celebrate, enjoy this photo essay of 17 gay couples and their kids posing for the camera beside Saint Nick! And make sure you stick around for the last one. Trust us, it's worth it.

See all the photos here.

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Top Moments From Famous Gay Dads in 2018!

From Tom Daley and Dustin Lance Black becoming first time dads, to a gay dad contestant on the Great British Bakeoff, here were some of the top moments from famous gay dads in 2018!

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Top 13 Instagram Posts of Gay Dads From 2018

Check out our top Instagram posts of gay dads and their families from 2018!

In 2018, our Insta-game was stronger than ever. We brought you over 500 pics of gay, bi and trans men and their families from all over the world! You clearly enjoyed the pics (to the tune of over 1.2 million likes!) as much as we enjoyed sharing them. With the year almost over, we wanted to remind you of some of our top pics from the the last year. (Not following Gays With Kids on Instagram yet? Fix that now for daily dose of adorable pics!)

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Gay Dads and Their Kids Who Sleighed Their Photo Op With Santa This Year

Check out this year's round up of 17 gay dads and their kids posing with St. Nick!

The countdown to Christmas is on! To celebrate, enjoy this photo essay of 17 gay couples and their kids posing for the camera beside Saint Nick! And make sure you stick around for the last one. Trust us, it's worth it.

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Study Finds Two-Thirds of Gay Dads Experienced Stigma in Last Year

The study also found that over half of gay dads have avoided certain social situations in the last year for fear of experiencing stigma.

According to new research by the American Academy of Pediatrics, the vast majority of gay men and their children experience some form of stigma. The findings are based on a survey of 732 gay father across 47 states in the United States.

More gay men are becoming fathers each year, and have more options for doing so than ever before: including adoption, foster care, and surrogacy. However as the study's authors write: "Despite legal, medical, and social advances, gay fathers and their children continue to experience stigma and avoid situations because of fear of stigma. Increasing evidence reveals that stigma is associated with reduced well-being of children and adults, including psychiatric symptoms and suicidality"

Almost two-thirds of respondents, or 63.5%, reported experiencing stigma based on being a gay father within the last year. Over half, or 51.2%, said they have avoided situations for fear of stigma, in the past year. Importantly, the study found that fathers living in states with more legal protections for LGBTQ people and families experienced fewer barriers and stigma. Most experiences of stigma (almost 35%) occurred, unsurprisingly, in a religious environment. But another quarter of gay dads said they experienced stigma from a wide variety of other sources, including: family members, neighbors, waiters, service providers, and salespeople

Surprisingly (or perhaps not?) another source of stigma cited by the study originates from other gay men. "Gay men report suspicion and criticism for their decision to be parents from gay friends who have not chosen parenthood." The study also says gay dads often feel "isolation in their parental role."

The study concludes, "Despite growing acceptance of parenting by same-gender adults, barriers and stigma persist. States' legal and social protections for lesbian and gay individuals and families appear to be effective in reducing experiences of stigma for gay fathers."

Read the whole study here.

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5 Pics of Ricky Martin In Newborn Baby Bliss

He may be a superstar most of the year, but with a new baby girl at home, Ricky Martin is just a regular ol' dad deep in the throes of newborn baby bliss.

On January 1st, 2019 superstar Ricky Martin and his husband Jwan Yosef shared a post via Instagram announcing that they'd welcomed a baby girl named Lucia into their family.

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Gay Dads Featured on Cover of Parents Magazine for First Time

Fitness guru Shaun T. and his husband Scott Blokker are the first gay dads to be featured on the cover of Parents Magazine

I literally never thought I'd see the day. Literally.

Gay fathers on the cover of Parents Magazine! Gay fathers being celebrated in a "main stream" publication about being parents. Gay fathers!

I don't want to get overly dramatic here, but this is a milestone. A massive cultural milestone.

Sure, gay dads have come a long way in being accepted in our popular culture, but to my eye we've never been on the cover of a big popular parenting magazine celebrating our parenting skills. As if we are the norm.

We are now - thanks to Parents Magazine.

This is a particular milestone for me because I have a bit of a history with the magazine and with parenting publications in general. My first job out of grad school was in brand marketing at Johnson's Baby Products where I did indeed run advertising in this particular magazine. Back then though we only featured married, straight couples. There were no other kinds of parents to feature back in the day! And if I'm to be really honest, they were generally white, married, straight couples.

I distinctly remember one photo shoot where I forgot to put a wedding ring on the "husband's" finger and we had to reshoot it. No photoshop back then!

Now admittedly this was before I was a dad and before I was out, but as the years went by and I embraced my own journey as a gay dad, there were no role models or pop culture markers to say that I (and other gay dads) were accepted. There were no Andy Cohens publicly making baby announcements. We were alone on our parenting.

It was hard. There was a constant barrage of straight parenting norms that constantly reminded us that we were different.
Not any more! Being a gay dad, or any dad, is now simply being a parent. A good parent. A loving parent. And we have Parents Magazine to thank for the reminder and endorsement, with hopefully more to come.

And I can't help but think, and actually know, that this kind of normalization will inspire the next generation of gay dads who will simply accept, without hesitation, that fatherhood as a gay man is a real, accepted, and normal option.

Bravo!

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Broadway Husbands Talk Eggs, Embryos and Exciting News

The husbands explain what is considered a good egg retrieval.

In their previous video, Broadway Husbands Bret Shuford and Stephen Hanna shared that they found their egg donor. In this video, the dads-to-be discuss their embryo creation process. And - spoiler alert - there are now frozen Hanna-Shuford embryos, and the husbands are ready for their next step: finding a gestational carrier.

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