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These Adoptive Dads Gained an Extended Family Through Foster Care

Originally published October 10, 2019

Celebrating gay, bi and trans fatherhood is what we do on...

Gay Couple Adopts Seven Kids and Fosters More Across State Lines

Terrance and John became extremely passionate about the situation for foster kids in the two adjoined states that seemed to be at war, both against one another and against the wellbeing of the children.

Arizona new foster law discrimiates against lgbtq+ people

Arizona’s New Foster Law Discriminates Against LGBTQ+ People

Arizona’s Republican Governor has signed a law that will likely open to door to discrimination against LGBTQ+ people who would consider fostering or adopting to form their families.

This Gay Couple Became First-Time Dads Within Weeks

Finally it became official: Clayton, Tim and Kennedy were a forever family of three.

We Gained a Son Through Foster-to-Adopt — He Didn't Lose his Family

Just because we get the honor of gaining a child, it doesn't mean little man has to lose his family.

To Other Gay Men Considering Foster Care: Put the Kids First

Robby and David's advice to all those gay men thinking about fatherhood through foster care.

These Gay Dads Opened a French Eatery in Virginia After Meeting at...

When they're not busy running their eatery, Patrick and Jason are kept plenty busy with their two girls.

Gay Dads in West Yorkshire, UK Urged to Adopt Children Who Wait Longer

One Adoption West Yorkshire is urging LGBTQ+ people across the region who are thinking about adoption to consider providing a safe and loving home for a child or group of siblings who traditionally wait longer than others.

Michigan LGBTQ+ Adoption Task Force Follows Settlements with Catholic...

The task force was announced after the state signed two settlements allowing two religious private welfare agencies to refuse to work with LGBTQ+ people.

Texas Dads Adopt Five of Seven Siblings

The couples’ advice for other gay men considering starting a family through foster-to-adopt is to never give up on your dreams of having a forever family.

This Adoption Agency Helps Queer Men Adopt Internationally

Spence Chapin is one of the only adoption agencies that helps LGBTQ+ parents-to-be navigate international adoptions.

Arin and Derek; A GWK Love Story

It’s rare, but it happens, and we love it when it does; it’s a GWK love connection!

Meet the Millennial Gay Dads Who’ve Fostered 60+ Kids in Colorado

Matthew and Jared said it’s been incredibly rewarding to be able to care for so many children in need of love and stability.

Foster Care is a Marathon, Not a Sprint, Say These Gay Dads

Originally Published Feb. 2, 2018

Together over 18 years, Derek, an accountant, and David, a...

Party of Five: Fred & Adam’s Journey to Fatherhood

The Trevor Project; What’s Changed for Gay Kids? (with Chris Bright)

While many issues have gotten better for the LGBTQ+ community over the years, the Trevor Project's report found that suicide and mental health has only gotten worse, especially for queer youth during the pandemic.

Why Gay Dads are Essential to the Foster Care System

Gay adults are often no strangers to forming a ‘found family’ of their own. Those who become licensed foster parents join a long line of gay parental figures who have provided queer foster youth an important safe haven over the years.

Foster Care Is an LGBTQ Rights Issue (With Foster Club)

The wonderful journey to adopting a child can often start with fostering, which is one of the main...

On the latest episode of Gays With Kids the Podcast, David Dodge talks to Angel Petite, Senior Policy Manager at Foster Club, and Foster Club 'Lived Experience Leaders' Ernesto Olivares and Izzy Moncada, about how gay dads and dads-to-be can support older LGBTQ+ foster kids.

Single Dad Steven Says He Would Foster-to-Adopt Again “In A Heartbeat”

Steven has loved watching Oscar grow over the years, and feels extra-proud when he does a sweet gesture for one of his cousins or even a random stranger.

Single Foster Dad turned into adoptive dad

This Single Dad’s Foster-To-Adopt Journey Took Less Than A Year

For other single gay men who are thinking about fostering-to-adopt, Daniel said it’s definitely possible, and there are many children who need a loving family.

Can single gay men become foster parents?

Kevin Talks Foster Care With Romayne Pollard

Single Dad Patrick Fostered 5 Gay Teens, Now He’s Adopting Them As...

Then a single gay man in his mid-50s, Patrick was walking through the streets of D.C. enjoying the celebrations, when he noticed a table set up by Child and Family Services. They were looking for gay singles and couples to house gay teens in the foster care system.

Jason and Eric's Foster-To-Adopt Journey

Kevin talks foster care with gay dad Arin Lopez

Navigating Foster Care as a Gay Man

"Open Heart and Mind": Tom and Doug's Foster-Adopt Journey

These Foster-Adopt Dads Helped Keep a Sibling Group Together

These Foster-Adopt Dads Helped Keep a Sibling Group of Four Together

Kevin Talks Foster Care With Dad Ruben Ramos

Kevin Talks Foster Care With Ruben Ramos

Afraid of Adopting from Foster Care? These Dads Say Don't Be

Kentucky husbands William and Bland Lee have been together 20 years and became dads through...

Why Fostering To Adopt Was The Right Path For Single Gay Dad Kevin

"My Amber Colored World": Lessons My Daughter Has Taught Me

Parenting, for all parents, is full of little life lessons. Most of those are lessons that help our...

This Transracial Family Relies on a 'Support Group' of African...

Our second feature in our transracial family series. Read the first one here.

The Visits: A Gay Dad's First Encounters with his Future son

Editor's Note: This is the second in a series of excerpts from Joseph Sadusky's new book, Magic...

Finding My Kids

Editor's Note: This is the first in a series of excerpts from Joseph Sadusky's new book, Magic...

It Was "Love at First Sight," Say Foster Dads Scott and Joel

Originally published June 11, 2016

Meet husbands and dads Scott, 44, the Director of Strategy for...

Why Limit Yourself to One Path to Parenthood? These Dads Pursued Two!

Travis, 36, and Jay, 29, met nine years ago in a gay bar in Riverside, California. Both work in the...

Together, We Can Reinvent the Foster Care System

There are nearly 500,000 children in the foster care system. We think it is time to dig deep into...

This Single Gay Dad and Foster Care Advocate Was Featured on the...

Like many dads we feature on Gays With Kids, Philadelphia resident Eric Johnson always knew he...

"Rollercoaster and Sons," Explores the Journey of One Single Gay Dad...

Guest post written by Chase Turner

How Canada's 'Gay Dollar' Helped This Gay Man Reflect on His Biggest...

Earlier this year, Canada unveiled a rainbow-stripped coin dollar to commemorate the 50th...

Do We Have a Biological Right to Fatherhood? Absolutely, Says This...

Editor's Note: Below is an essay by Jay Bostick who eloquently lays out many of the reasons why he...

Why This Adopted Gay Man Will Never Have Children

Guest post written by Kevin Saunders.

This Gay Couple Was Inspired to Become Foster Dads Thanks to the...

Matthew Hamparian and his husband Brian Lawrence have been together for over 18 years and live in...

Texas Foster Dads; Our Hearts Were Stolen, Then Our Last Names

Kids were always part of the plan for this San Antonio couple, but an opportunity to become dads came into view a little earlier than planned.

Salt Lake Gay Couple Behind Viral Wedding Proposal Become Foster Dads

Over 5 years ago, you might remember seeing an amazing proposal that took place in a Home Depot in...

Antwon and Nate On Their First Year As Foster Dads

We have had our foster daughter for over a year, and everyday brings different challenges and...

This Gay Couple Opens Their Home to Kids at Risk of Aging Out of the...

"At first our decision was practical," said Rich Buley-Neumar about his decision to adopt older...

Adopted Himself, This Gay Man and His Husband Looked to the Foster...

"It has changed drastically in the most inspiring and positive way," replied Taylor McGregor, when...

These Men Open Up on the Beauty and Challenges of Being Gay Foster...

"Every time a foster child would leave our home, we felt that maybe we couldn't do this anymore –...

Don't Call My African American Son 'Aggressive'

There are a ton of words people have used to describe my son: handsome, funny, polite, and even a...

"We Got A Kid!" A Year-Long Foster Care Journey Comes to an End

Over the past year, husbands and dads-to-be Antwon and Nate have been sharing their journey as...

First Came Love, Marriage and the Baby Carriage. Then Came the...

"Before life was fun!" said Nick Phomkasornsri. "Lots of friend time, easy to travel, and late...

These Gay Foster Dads Are Happy Helping Other Families Succeed

"We always knew we wanted to adopt since there are so many children already in the world,"...

A Single Gay Dad Finds Family in the Foster Care System

Andrew Gubany lives in La Habra, California with his daughter and son, Dianna and Owen. He works as...

Hardest Part of Foster Care? The Wait, Say These Dads-to-Be

In March this year, Antwon and Nate shared their exciting news with the Gays With Kids community:...

James and Andrew Can't Wait to Become a Forever Family

In October this year, James and Andrew took their eldest Olivia (Liv for short) to Disney World for...

After 640 Days in Foster Care, a Boy Joins a Forever Family of 2

Ramon Casanova always wanted to be a dad. He was raised in a single parent household by his mother...

One Gay Couple's Mission to Help Fellow Native American Families

Alfredo and Anthony

Alfredo and Anthony Marcial live in Newark, New Jersey with their 4-year-old son, Adam. The couple...

These Dads Are Setting Sail With Their 6 Year Old Son

Court King and Rafael Gondim live in Kew Gardens, New York. They have been in a committed...

This Gay Couple Fought Against Alcoholism and Discrimination to...

Kelsey Cain and his husband Stacy Ellis Cain are the proud parents to two children, who the...

Two Dads, Five Foster Kids

Names: Mikkel Short and Bailey Shake

Three Couples Open Up About Their Foster-Adopt Experiences

May is National Foster Care Month, and to celebrate, we've spent the last few weeks bringing you...

In Just 6 Months, These Selfless Foster Dads Housed 9 Kids

Dennis said they became foster dads because they knew they would be able to help children who were in need, children who were scared and had no where to go and no one to love them.

Foster Dads Shed Selfishness, Gain a Family

Names: Jeffrey Champ and Hector Marcano Location: Reading, Pennsylvania
Relationship Status:

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Nate and Stephen Adopted a Sibling Group of Three

Did you know that two-thirds of children in the foster care system have siblings who are also in...

#GWKThenAndNow: Christopher and Patrick from Seattle

Christopher and Patrick, 48 and 49 respectively, have been together nearly 20 years. They live in...

Foster Care Family Concerned About Future with Trump

Watch: Gay Dads Greg and Paul Continue Their Story of Foster-Adopt

As a follow-up to their first video, Greg and Paul continue their story about the family's...

Rob Chasteen-Scheer: From Homeless Teen to Tireless Advocate for...

Rob Chasteen-Scheer overcame years of abuse and homelessness to become a father to four at-risk...

Love and Family: Two All-American Dads

We are a world in desperate need of heroes. When I was a child, I looked to the skies. When I was a high schooler, I looked to comics. When I was in college, I looked to athletes. And now as a father, I look to people like Thomas and Jonathan West, every bit the heroes a world like ours needs.

A Single Gay Foster Dad Finds Love and Creates a Forever Family

Sean wanted to become a foster dad, but didn’t want to wait for the white picket fence dream to...

Happiness is Adopting a Sibling Group of Three

Tripp and Terry’s road to fatherhood of siblings began with the purchase of a bunk bed.

In 2012,...

Great News From Blogger Jason P

Following our adoption finalization back in January 2015, Eric and I took some much-needed time to...

Three Minutes on the Porch

Read the fine print. They don't tell you everything in foster-adoption class and what they don’t...

A Small Miracle: Marty, Michael and Shawn

Marty and Michael met at a college in October of 2003; Marty was in his senior year; Michael was a...

Family Spotlight: Joaquín, Charles and Alex

“Looking back, I don’t know what life was like before Alex.”

Gay Foster Dad: Paths to Fatherhood for Gay Men

Little research exists on LGBT foster parents. (Anyone beginning to sense a theme here?) So what do...

Incredible: The 15 Children of the Ham Family

Steven and Roger Ham are gay dads. Okay, we’ll admit that's what you might expect to see at the...

Today is the Adoption of Justin Peers Pelovello!

This is the 17th (and final) article in Jason P’s series about Foster-Adopt. To read the first in...

Roller Skating for Children

This is the 16th article in Jason P’s series about Foster-Adopt. To read the first in the series,...

Waiting For a Call

This is the 15th article in Jason P’s series about Foster-Adopt. To read the first in the series,...

In the Shadow of Leukemia, a Focus on the Little Things

Malaki was diagnosed with leukemia just two months after he arrived at his new Toronto home. Now,...

"Would You be Open to an LGBT Child?"

This is the 14th article in Jason P’s series about Foster-Adopt. To read the first in the series,...

All I Want for Christmas is Marriage Equality

Dear Chief Justice and Justices,

The Home Study

This is the 12th article in Jason P’s series about Foster-Adopt. To read the first in the series,...

Thirteen Kids, Two Dads

Clint McCormack recalls a time when he and his partner Bryan Reamer did whatever they wanted,...

After the Classes

This is the 11th article in Jason P’s series about Foster-Adopt. To read the first in the series,...

“Why you gotta be so serious? Oh right, because we’re having a child!”

This is the 10th article in Jason P’s series about Foster-Adopt. To read the first in the series,...

Family Matters: The Accidental Gay Dads

How three unexpected adoptions changed the bonds of blood

What Happens at Ruby Tuesday’s Stays at Ruby Tuesday’s

This is the eighth article in Jason P’s series on Foster-Adopt. To read the first in the series,...

Everything You Think You Know About Foster-Adopt is Wrong

This is the fifth article in Jason P's series on Foster-Adopt. To read the first article, click ...

How My Future Was Born

This is the fourth article in Jason P’s series about Foster-Adopt. To read the first in the series,...

The Journey To Foster Care: Are You Ready #2

Last night, we had a WONDERFUL night! Foster Son wants to be a fashion designer, so a friend of...

The Decision

This is the first article in Jason P's series on Foster-Adopt.

Family Spotlight: A.J. & Daniel

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Gay Couple Adopts Seven Kids and Fosters More Across State Lines

Arizona’s New Foster Law Discriminates Against LGBTQ+ People

This Gay Couple Became First-Time Dads Within Weeks

We Gained a Son Through Foster-to-Adopt — He Didn't Lose his Family

To Other Gay Men Considering Foster Care: Put the Kids First

These Gay Dads Opened a French Eatery in Virginia After Meeting at...

Gay Dads in West Yorkshire, UK Urged to Adopt Children Who Wait Longer

Michigan LGBTQ+ Adoption Task Force Follows Settlements with Catholic...

Texas Dads Adopt Five of Seven Siblings

This Adoption Agency Helps Queer Men Adopt Internationally

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Meet the Millennial Gay Dads Who’ve Fostered 60+ Kids in Colorado

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Party of Five: Fred & Adam’s Journey to Fatherhood

The Trevor Project; What’s Changed for Gay Kids? (with Chris Bright)

Why Gay Dads are Essential to the Foster Care System

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Single Dad Steven Says He Would Foster-to-Adopt Again “In A Heartbeat”

This Single Dad’s Foster-To-Adopt Journey Took Less Than A Year

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Afraid of Adopting from Foster Care? These Dads Say Don't Be

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