What Questions Should You Ask A Gestational Carrier?

What Questions Should You Ask Your Future Surrogate?

What Are Good Questions to Ask a Prospective Surrogate?

Ashley Myers of Same Love Surrogacy gives examples of questions you should prepare to ask your future surrogate.

Getting to know your surrogate

Surrogacy is an extremely intimate relationship between the parents-to-be and the gestational carrier. It is important that during this personal journey you and your surrogate are on the same page. It is best to ask these questions up front to know if they are a good match. Here are some of the best questions to ask a prospective surrogate.

The best questions to ask your surrogate

  • "What made you want to become a surrogate?"
  • "What does your family think of you becoming a surrogate?"
  • "What does your support network look like?"
  • "What kind of communication would you like to have?"
  • "What kind of contact do you want to have during and after the pregnancy?"
  • "What do envision your journey to be like?"
  • "What are your values? What is important to you?"
  • "What do you hope to get out of this experience?"
  • "Do you have any questions or concerns about us?"
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Posted by Ashley Myers

Ashley Myers was raised in Southern California and now resides in Riverside County with her three children. She has worked in the medical field for 12 years, specializing in Obstetrics and Gynecology for 10 years. Ashley has had experience with several different cases of infertility and she has been a successful surrogate herself four times, both for international couples and same sex couples in the United States. It was Ashley’s heart and desire for building families through surrogacy that brought her to Same Love Surrogacy in early 2015 as a surrogate coordinator. Now as the senior surrogate coordinator, Ashley is responsible for managing all of the surrogates in our program as well as coordinating our surrogate support events throughout the year.

Website: https://www.samelovesurrogacy.com/

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