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Gay Dads Charlie and James, On the Inspiration for Their Popular Instagram Account

"You can't be what you can't see," James told us during Family Week in P-town this year, noting that the couple's popular Instagram account @papaanddaddy (which has over 44K followers!) is their way of helping "pay it forward."

We caught up with Charlie and James during Family Week in P-town to talk about being new dads, the importance of being around families like theirs, and the inspiration behind their popular Instagram account, @papaanddaddy.

"We are very much the beneficiaries of the campaign to win hearts and minds," James said, noting that generations of LGBTQ people had paved the way for the couple to get married and start a family. "This is our way of paying it forward. You can't be what you can't see."


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Gay Dads Greg and Phillip, On the Importance of Being Close to Other LGBTQ Families

"I think it's very important," Greg told us during Family Week at P-town of the need to expose their kids to other LGBTQ families. "Growing up, they have always known there are other kids with same-sex families.

"We're from Texas which is very conservative," Greg told Gays With Kids during Family Week at P-town this year.

"So we do a lot of activities in Houston with other gay dads and gay families," added Phillip.

"We have a pool party at least one a year where we try to invite other gay dads and some lesbians too and try to get to know everybody."

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Gay Dads Mike and Steve, On the Importance of Honesty in an Adoptive, Bi-Racial Family

"Being two white dads with four black kids it's always been a part of our functioning as a family," Mike told us during Family Week at P-town this year, adding they prioritize conversations "about birth moms, race, and celebrating the beauty of our family."

"It's definitely something I always saw myself being, was a dad," Mike told us during Family Week in P-town this year. "Coming out as gay, that was one of my biggest struggles at the time was that I thought way back then that I could not be a dad if I was gay."

Four kids later? "Clearly I'm very gay and very much a dad."

Steve's advice for dads-to-be? "Three is enough!" he said, before quickly adding, "I'm kidding! I'm kidding!"

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