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Relishing the Happy Moments: Gad Dads Mark and Rob

During the week and a half since the presidential election many gay dads have experienced a whirlwind of negative emotions. What is going to happen to us? How do we protect our families? Suddenly there seems to be so much uncertainty in our future. Then we saw a Facebook post that reminded us of what grounds a gay dad’s life and gives it meaning. Here’s the message from gay dad Mark Angle that warmed out hearts. 

Thirteen years ago, when we'd been dating for about a month, Rob and I went to Build-A-Bear in the Houston Galleria Mall. I didn't want to be cliché, so we made a monkey. We named him Funky. He sat in our closet for over a decade, but now he is our daughter's favorite toy. Every morning, Melanie has me pick Funky up from her crib before she lets me reach for her.

If you'd told me that afternoon in Build-A-Bear, while cramming polyester fill up a toy monkey's ass, that it was my soulmate who was standing next to me, or that we were one day going to give this goofy little animal to a baby girl who'd become the love of our life, I'd never have believed you.

I am tired, I've lost the ability to complete virtually any task, and I'm overwhelmed by the love I have for my family.

Life is pretty cool.

Read two other heartwarming gay dad stories:

https://gayswithkids.com/2015/10/26/jacob-and-kodi-choosing-to-be-happy/

https://gayswithkids.com/2015/10/27/a-small-miracle-marty-michael-and-shawn/

 

 

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Daughter of Married Gay Couple Who Used Surrogacy Abroad Isn't Citizen, Says U.S. State Department

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The New York Times took an in-depth look at this case in a piece that ran in the paper yesterday. While James was born and raised in the U.S, his husband Jonathan was originally born in Britain. That may be enough, according to the State Department, to deny their daughter citizenship.

"We're both Americans; we're married," James told the New York Times. "We just found it really hard to believe that we could have a child that wouldn't be able to be in our country."

According to decades-old immigration law, a child born abroad must have a biological connection to a parent that is a U.S. citizen in order to be eligible to receive citizenship upon birth. Children born via surrogacy are determined to be "out of wedlock," according to the Times report," which then requires a more onerous process to qualify for citizenship, such as demonstrating that a biological parent is not only an American citizen, but has spent at least five years in the country.

The intent of the law, which dates back to the 1950s, was to prevent people from claiming, falsely, that they are the children of U.S. parents. But LGBTQ advocates argue this archaic policy is being used intentionally to discriminates against same-sex couples, who often have to rely on donors, IVF and surrogacy in order to have biologically children, and are thus held to a higher standard.

"This is where our life is. This is where our jobs are," James told the Times. "Our daughter can't be here, but she has no one else to care for her."

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