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25 Years of Hope, Love and Family at Northwest Surrogacy Center

Northwest Surrogacy Center celebrated 25 years of helping parents realize their dreams

Image: NWSC Clients

Guest post written by Carrie Ramoz of NWSC

What were you doing in 1994? Some of us were enjoying the explosion of Seattle-inspired coffee houses, wearing flannel and figuring out our place in the world. Honestly, many of us are still doing these exact same things in 2019. But something besides fragrant coffee was brewing in the early 1990s, and it was an idea that has now helped grow over 1,000 NWSC families.


A history that began with adoptions

In the 1990s, gestational surrogacy was still a new way to build a family. At the time, John Chally had been practicing adoption law for 15 years. He co-founded Open Adoption and Family Services in 1985, which is now the largest domestic adoption agency in the Pacific Northwest. In 1988, Sandy Hodgson joined the law firm. In addition to practicing adoption law, she also represented gestational carriers and intended parents in surrogacy and parentage matters, as well as egg and sperm donation contracts.

Clients soon began asking for non-legal assistance with surrogacy, so John and Sandy founded Northwest Surrogacy Center, LLC in 1994 in Portland, Oregon. They saw surrogacy as a loving way to help families grow and to work with the generous women who wanted to be surrogates. Sandy and John were the original – and only! – employees for over a decade. Molly O'Shea joined the team in the mid-2000s and still works there, and they have nearly 40 employees to assist with the many aspects of the surrogacy process.

Medical and industry advances propel surrogacy

Dads Fabien and Jean-Charles with their two children and their incredible surrogate

With the increased success of in-vitro fertilization and the reduction in the availability of adoptions, gestational surrogacy gained traction in Oregon and Sandy quickly became a trusted and experienced expert in the world of assisted reproduction and all things surrogacy.

NWSC celebrates its 25th anniversary in 2019. With offices in Seattle, San Francisco and Portland, NWSC has been, and continues to be, integral in the dramatic changes of US surrogacy.

LGBTQ Families and NWSC

Dads David and Ben

In the beginning, most of our LGBTQ families were focused on our adoption practice. Surrogacy was relatively new and the combination of lower success rates and the need for egg donors made other options more appealing. However, as success rates improved, and people became more comfortable with egg donation, we started working with more and more gay families. By the 2000s, the majority of the families we worked with were gay and this is a trend that has continued through today.

Because we had always worked with a significant number of LGBTQ families in our adoption and family law practice, our growing number of gay clients for surrogacy was not much of a surprise. It was simply a reflection of advancements in IVF success rates. These advancements gave our families more options in how they wanted to form their families.

The staff of NWSC

We are honored and humbled by the thousands of people who had reached out to us, whether as surrogate or intended families, these past 25 years. We are excited to dive into these stories and to share more about the lives impacted by surrogacy.

Thank you for being one of the souls to join us on this journey!

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