Gay Dad Photo Essays

Festive Holidays Cards From Gay Dads and Their Kids!

Matching sweaters? Fresh haircuts? Ear-to-ear grins? Must be the time for the annual holiday photo shoot!

If there's one thing that gets us in the holiday spirit each and every year it's obviously Maria Carey. But if there's one other thing that lets us know it's definitely time to deck the halls, it's seeing all of the adorable holiday photos from gay men and their kids flooding our Insta feed! Thanks again to our community of dads who continue to share their beautiful photos with us each and every year. Enjoy this year's round up below!


โ€œHereโ€™s to the next chapter in our lives. The love, the joy & and the laughter weโ€™ll experience as a family of 4 ๐Ÿ–คโ€

โ€œOfficially in Christmas mode ๐ŸŽ„โ€

โ€œWe received our 2019 holiday cards, and damn we have a beautiful family, if I do say so myself (which I do)!โ€

"Joy and Peace"

"Merry Christmas"

"Putting up the tree 2019!"

@calvinjames11

"A little holiday cheer for everyone. #wecametosleigh"

@2dadsadopt

โ€œDECEMBER 1st ๐ŸŽ„Tree is up โœ”๏ธ Air conditioning set to freezing โœ”๏ธ Champagne is flowing โœ”๏ธ Fruit mince pies being shoved down my gob โœ”๏ธChristmas month has begun ๐Ÿ‘จโ€๐Ÿ‘จโ€๐Ÿ‘ง๐Ÿคฃโ€ย 

"Christmas photo tease"

โ€œHappiest of holiday seasons to everyone! We hope you enjoy this time of year as much as we do. Lots of love from the Kochesโ€

โ€œOur faces change, Forgeโ€™s shoe size gets bigger, these pajamas seem a little tighter in the belly, but we hold onto each other as tight as canโ€

"Family photos! Happy Holidays! #lovethesetwo #papabear"

@bmore_brawn

"All I want for Xmas ... is all I already have โค๏ธ"

"Resignificando la Navidad โค๏ธ"

@jpnqn

"Love getting into the Holiday spirit with my Heart! It's the most wonderful time of the year!"ย 

"Happy Holidays!"

"Happy Holidays"

"Lawson family Christmas"

"'Tis the season... Down Under ๐Ÿ‡ฆ๐Ÿ‡บ"

"Happy Holidays Olsson Huang Family 2019"

โ€œ๐”—๐”ฌ: ๐”’๐”ฒ๐”ฏ ๐”‰๐”ž๐”ช๐”ฆ๐”ฉ๐”ฆ๐”ข๐”ฐ & ๐”‰๐”ฏ๐”ฆ๐”ข๐”ซ๐”ก๐”ฐ, โ„Œ๐”ž๐”ญ๐”ญ๐”ถ โ„Œ๐”ฌ๐”ฉ๐”ฆ๐”ก๐”ž๐”ถ๐”ฐ! ๐น๐“‡: ๐’ฏ๐’ฝ๐‘’ ๐’ข๐“Š๐“๐’น๐‘’๐“ƒ๐“…๐’ป๐‘’๐“ƒ๐“ƒ๐’พ๐‘”โ€™๐“ˆโ€

"It's a wonderful life"

"Merry Xmas from the GrowMillers!"

โ€œHereโ€™s to the next chapter in our lives. The love, the joy & and the laughter weโ€™ll experience as a family of 4 ๐Ÿ–คโ€

โ€œOfficially in Christmas mode ๐ŸŽ„โ€

โ€œWe received our 2019 holiday cards, and damn we have a beautiful family, if I do say so myself (which I do)!โ€

"Joy and Peace"

"Merry Christmas"

"Putting up the tree 2019!"

@calvinjames11

"A little holiday cheer for everyone. #wecametosleigh"

@2dadsadopt

โ€œDECEMBER 1st ๐ŸŽ„Tree is up โœ”๏ธ Air conditioning set to freezing โœ”๏ธ Champagne is flowing โœ”๏ธ Fruit mince pies being shoved down my gob โœ”๏ธChristmas month has begun ๐Ÿ‘จโ€๐Ÿ‘จโ€๐Ÿ‘ง๐Ÿคฃโ€ย 

"Christmas photo tease"

โ€œHappiest of holiday seasons to everyone! We hope you enjoy this time of year as much as we do. Lots of love from the Kochesโ€

โ€œOur faces change, Forgeโ€™s shoe size gets bigger, these pajamas seem a little tighter in the belly, but we hold onto each other as tight as canโ€

"Family photos! Happy Holidays! #lovethesetwo #papabear"

@bmore_brawn

"All I want for Xmas ... is all I already have โค๏ธ"

"Resignificando la Navidad โค๏ธ"

@jpnqn

"Love getting into the Holiday spirit with my Heart! It's the most wonderful time of the year!"ย 

"Happy Holidays!"

"Happy Holidays"

"Lawson family Christmas"

"'Tis the season... Down Under ๐Ÿ‡ฆ๐Ÿ‡บ"

"Happy Holidays Olsson Huang Family 2019"

โ€œ๐”—๐”ฌ: ๐”’๐”ฒ๐”ฏ ๐”‰๐”ž๐”ช๐”ฆ๐”ฉ๐”ฆ๐”ข๐”ฐ & ๐”‰๐”ฏ๐”ฆ๐”ข๐”ซ๐”ก๐”ฐ, โ„Œ๐”ž๐”ญ๐”ญ๐”ถ โ„Œ๐”ฌ๐”ฉ๐”ฆ๐”ก๐”ž๐”ถ๐”ฐ! ๐น๐“‡: ๐’ฏ๐’ฝ๐‘’ ๐’ข๐“Š๐“๐’น๐‘’๐“ƒ๐“…๐’ป๐‘’๐“ƒ๐“ƒ๐’พ๐‘”โ€™๐“ˆโ€

"It's a wonderful life"

"Merry Xmas from the GrowMillers!"

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