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5 Gay Dads Who Are Leading the Way for LGBTQ Families

Here is a list of five gay dads who are setting a positive parenting example to the LGBTQ community and world as a whole.

Photo from @EltonJohn Instagram

The modern family has come a long way from 2.4 children, set within the traditional nuclear unit. Gay parents are now commonplace, with laws around the world gradually changing to legalize gay marriage and adoption.

With this sentiment in mind, and with the beginning of Pride season this June, here is a celebration of five gay dads who set a fine parenting example to the gay community and world as a whole.

#1: Kordale Lewis

This American dad has a veritable brood in his home being parent to four children, two boys and two girls.

Kordale Lewis and his then partner Kaleb shot into the limelight for a photo they posted on Instagram which at the time seemed nothing out of the ordinary. A fun snap of the two dads getting their daughters' hair ready for school - but the internet exploded.

As well as being two gay men co-parenting a family, Kordale and Kaleb are also black. This loving yet everyday moment presented a rare moment of positivity, at a time when racial tensions were running high. For this reason, this one viral snap has changed this family's life forever, cannoning them into the spotlight and giving Kordale a powerful voice.

This positive model of a modern family has led to Nikon cameras choosing the family to lead their 2015 marketing campaign, and Swedish avant-garde brand Acne Studios picking them to front an ad for them last year.

Seizing the opportunity to embrace positive attitudes, Kordale Lewis has also released a top-selling book, Picture Perfect, about the dynamics of families today, and what it means to be a gay dad.

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