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Brad Spencer, Danny Cook-Wong, and Jay Cook-Wong, Same Love Surrogacy

The inspiration for Same Love Surrogacy came from personal experience…the experience of three gay dads who created their families via surrogacy and egg donation, as well as a four-time surrogate for international and domestic gay intending parents.

The three agency owners -- Brad Spencer, Jay and Danny Cook-Wong -- set out to create a surrogacy agency tailored to the unique needs of LGBTQ intended parents, which they found missing among the traditional agencies they had personally experienced.

Informed by more than 40 years of cumulative experience with surrogacy and donor services, as well as their own perspectives as LGBTQ parents and surrogate to LGBTQ parents, Same Love Surrogacy is a global leading egg donor and surrogacy agency based in Los Angeles and Portland.

The agency is committed to making each and every experience as streamlined, informed and stress-free as possible.

And intended dads can feel confident knowing that the SLS team will stick with you throughout your entire journey!

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Our Agency is Tailored to the Unique Needs of LGBTQ Intended Parents 


  • 100% gay owned and operated, full service egg donor and surrogate agency
  • Access to US based egg donors and fully pre-screened surrogates
  • Continual guidance, information, and service throughout your journey 24/7/365
  • Direct access to an SLS owner who manages all cases with IPs
  • Performance based agency fee with low initial good faith deposit and no re-matching fees
  • SLS is a multilingual agency with employees speaking English, Chinese, Spanish, French and Japanese  


Brad Spencer, co-founder and co-owner of Same Love Surrogacy

Brad and his husband have twin boys conceived through IVF with the good fortune to have a family member as their egg donor and an exceptional gestational carrier. 

It was Brad's personal journey that helped build a full service agency in 2014 that is owned and operated by three gay fathers.

Brad is globally known for providing best-in-class services to LGBTQ individuals seeking to become parents through assisted reproductive technology.  He has successfully helped LGBTQ individuals build their families, including HIV-positive gay men. Brad works closely with the leading IVF clinics, attorneys and insurance companies in the United States.  

Danny Cook-Wong, co-owner and co-founder of Same Love Surrogacy

Danny and his husband Jay's personal experience creating their family via surrogacy and egg donation helped them envision a world-class agency with full transparency and exceptional service.

Danny was born in Hong Kong and moved to Los Angeles at the age of 3. Family has always been of utmost importance to him, and he has always known that he wanted to be a dad, but never thought it would be possible.  After making his dream a reality, Danny turned his passion for family building to assisting other LGBTQ individuals with the creation of their own families.

Jay Cook-Wong, co-owner and co-founder of Same Love Surrogacy

Jay and his husband Danny's personal experience creating their family via surrogacy and egg donation helped them envision a world-class agency with full transparency and exceptional service.

Jay was born in Michigan and has resided in Los Angeles, CA for the past 24 years with his husband and twin boys. He holds a Bachelor of Science degree in Health and Fitness Management and an Associate's degree in Nursing.

Jay combines the unique blend of his management and medical experience to fulfill his passion assisting the LGBTQ+ community create families of their own.

Ashley Myers, Director of Surrogacy Services 

Ashley was raised in Southern California and now resides in Portland, Oregon with her three children.

She has worked in the medical field for 12 years, specializing in Obstetrics and Gynecology for 10 years. Ashley has had experience with several different cases of infertility and she has been a successful surrogate herself four times, both for international couples and same-sex couples in the United States.

It was Ashley’s heart and desire for building families through surrogacy that brought her to Same Love Surrogacy in early 2015 as a surrogate coordinator. Now, as the director of surrogacy services, Ashley is responsible for managing surrogate and egg donor coordinators as well as overseeing all of the surrogates in our program. She also coordinates our surrogate support events throughout the year.

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