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Weekend Roundup: Embrace Your Inner Superhero

Tomorrow---Friday April 28th---is National Superhero Day! Not all of us can be Teen Wolf (that's probably a job best left to dad-to-be Colton Haynes!) and it may be harder than it looks to pull off a red cape. But we still believe there is something just a little bit super-human about all of us. Check out our roundup this week!


My Family Builders

Sometimes it takes superhuman strength to find toys reflective of our diverse families. That's why we love the stacking toys at My Family Builders! Kids can explore and create their own diverse, beautiful families of all shapes, sizes, and colors. And check out these other cool toys for our families!

 

 


Send us Your Superhero Pics!

National Superhero Day is tomorrow, but it's not too late to send us your superhero pics! So dust off those old Halloween costumes, snap a photo, and then send them faster than a speeding train to dads@gayswithkids.com.

 

 


 Gay Dads on HBO's Big Little Lies

Holy déjà vu Batman! Did those gay dads on HBO's Big Little Lies look familiar? They should have! Actors Larry Sullivan and David Monahan previously starred with their son in this sweet Cambell's soup ad.

 

 


 Shazam! Your Son's Hair is...Blue?

What to do when your 6-year-old son wants a blue hairdo? Stay-at-home-dad Frank Lowe said yes! He was never allowed to experiment with his "look" as a kid, so he was thrilled with the idea. Check out the pics in the post. We think he looks great!

 


Is Teen Wolf Star Having a Pup?

Everyone's favorite supernatural heartthrob Colton Hayes has been teasing fans on Instagram for weeks about his status as a soon-to-be. So here are our top 5 reasons why we're sure he and hubby Jeff Leatham will make awesome fathers!

 

 

 


Next Week... We're Playing the Name Game!

name gameAre you "Dad?" Is your husband "Papa?" Did you come up with a unique name that's fitting for you and your family? Whatever you settled on, every new gay dad plays this name game. We want to hear about it! Send us a quick note on how you came up with your names to: dads@gayswithkids.com

Miss last week's roundup? Read it here.

 

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Top Moments From Famous Gay Dads in 2018!

From Tom Daley and Dustin Lance Black becoming first time dads, to a gay dad contestant on the Great British Bakeoff, here were some of the top moments from famous gay dads in 2018!

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This Gay Dad Takes 'Twinning' to a Whole New Level

With his husband away on work, Danny Maffia was put on twin duty and filmed the experience for our viewing pleasure.

Danny Maffia and his husband Justin DeMartin became dads to twins after a three failed adoptions and two scams (read their story here). And not only did they get their family's happy ending, they are also winning at this whole twin thing!

Recently, while Justin was away for various work conferences, Danny was left holding the fort. For some fun, he decided to film his nightly routine with the twins. Remaining cool, calm and collected, in the video Danny appears to stay one step ahead of his twins at all times. Bravo, dad!

Danny was quick to follow up in his Instagram post that this was a very tame night in comparison to what it can usually be. Tame or not, Danny shows us how it's done. Our hats are off to you!

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Next Holiday Recipe From the "Preppy Kitchen" Dad: Pecan Shortbread Cookies

This recipe for pecan shortbread cookies comes together in a snap, says "Preppy Kitchen" dad John Kanell.

These spiced and spiked shortbread cookies are brimming over with toasted pecans and oh so delicious! There's a healthy pour of bourbon along with all the cinnamon, allspice, nutmeg and cloves in there that really adds a wonderful depth of flavor. I love making big batches of them around this time of year to give as gifts. The recipe comes together in a snap and they're beautiful without any decoration, which is always a plus when there just aren't enough hours in the day! Still trying to get my 19 month old twins to help whip up a batch. So far we've done some very fun but messy sifting together!

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Utah Court Rules Gay Couples Can't Be Excluded From Surrogacy Contracts

The Utah Supreme Court found in favor of a gay couple attempting to enter into a surrogacy contract.

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Earlier this month, the Utah Supreme Court ruled that a same-sex couples can't be excluded from entering into enforceable surrogacy contracts, and sent a case concerning a gay male couple back to trial court to approve their petition for a surrogacy arrangement.

As reported in Gay City News, the case concerns Utah's 2005 law on surrogacy, which was enacted prior to the legalization of same-sex marriage in the state. As a result, the content of the law is gendered, saying that surrogacy contracts should only be enforceable if the "intended mother" is unable to bear a child. When a gay couple approached District Judge Jeffrey C. Wilcox to enter into a surrogacy arrangement, he denied them, arguing that the state's law only concerned opposite sex couples.

"This opinion is an important contribution to the growing body of cases adopting a broad construction of the precedent created by Obergefell v. Hodges and the Supreme Court's subsequent decision in Pavan v. Smith," according to GCN. "It's also worth noting that same-sex couples in Utah now enjoy a right denied them here in New York, where compensated gestational surrogacy contracts remain illegal for all couples."

Read the full article here.

Personal Essays by Gay Dads

Thoughts and Prayers Aren't Working:​ One Father's Plea for Gun Reform

One gay dad's plea to our leaders to enact sensible gun control

My articles on GaysWithKids aspire to be lighthearted, helpful and humorous. This one won't be any of those things. Because I'm feeling heavyhearted, helpless and sad. Last week I woke up to news of yet another mass shooting. This time at a family-friendly Garlic Festival in northern California. I don't know if it's because this one hit so close to home, or if it's because the headline included a picture of the innocent 6-year old who was among those killed, but I am overcome with emotion. But mostly I am angry. And I don't know what to do with my anger.

Then, just a few days later came two additional horrific mass shootings that stole the lives of at least 32 more innocent people, many of them children. And then there's the "everyday" gun violence that plagues American cities like Chicago, where guns injured another 46 people this past weekend alone… creating so much turmoil, a hospital had to briefly stop taking patients.

How does one verbalize the collective sadness felt around the world? One can't. And that's why I am asking everyone reading this article to commit to getting involved in some way, to help end this epidemic once and for all. Even though the solution is so obvious, we can't allow ourselves to become numb to mass shootings. Because becoming numb isn't going to save anyone.

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Politics

Gay Russian Dads Forced to Flee Moscow

Fearing the Russian government might take their adopted kids into custody because of their sexual orientation, Andrei Vaganov and Yevgeny Yerofeyev fled Moscow

A married couple in Russia, with two adopted children, were just forced the flee their home in Moscow for fear that the authorities would take their children away, according to German news site Deutsche Welle.

Trouble started last month after investigators in Russia opened a criminal inquiry into the proceedings that had allowed the gay couple, Andrei Vaganov and Yevgeny Yerofeyev, to legally adopt the two boys —adoption by LGBTQ people in Russia has typically not been recognized. The government became aware of the adoption proceedings after the gay couple brought their 12-year-old son to the hospital, who was complaining of a stomachache. The boy was fine, but after he mentioned offhand that he was adopted and lived with two fathers, the doctor called the police.

Andrei and Yevgeny granted an interview with Deutsche Welle after escaping Moscow, but on the advice of their lawyers have yet to disclose where they are currently located. Here is a quick recap of that conversation:

"In connection with the 'propaganda of non-traditional values,' the state representatives are accused of having neglected their duty of supervision," Andrei said, when asked to explain on what basis the Russian government might take his children into custody. "This means that lesbian couples could even have their biological children taken away because, through their lifestyle choices, they propagate "certain values."

Yevgeny also explained the events that led to the couple's harrowing escape "I was alone in Moscow at that time. A week after Andrei and the children had left the country, there was a knock on my door, but nobody called 'police, open up.' After half an hour the violent knocking stopped. My parents' home was searched. They were looking for the children and our Danish marriage certificate because we got married in Denmark in 2016. My friends then got me out of the country."

Read the full interview here.

Gay Dad Family Stories

This Couple is Using 'Wheel of Fortune' Winnings to Help Fund Their Adoption

Need to raise money for your adoption fund? Why not try your luck on Wheel of Fortune like these guys!

Doug and Nick Roberts connected three and a half years ago via a dating app, and on their first date, the two immediately felt a connection. Doug, a psychologist, and Nick, a neuroscientist, were married 18 months later. Today the couple live in the suburbs of Philadelphia, and they're ready to start their next exciting adventure together: fatherhood.

The husbands would like to have children, and Nick has always wanted to adopt. "We considered surrogacy, and may consider it in the future as we expand our family," said Doug, "but right now, it is cost-prohibitive. Adoption was easily the right choice for us as we begin to grow our family.

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