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Broadway Performer's Surrogacy Journey Briefly Sidetracked — for One Very 'Wicked' Reason

"Broadway Husbands" Stephen and Bret explain the exciting reasons they had to hit pause on their surrogacy journey — but don't worry, they're back on track!

In the latest video of the Broadway Husbands sharing their path to fatherhood, Stephen and Bret explain their hiatus for the past 4 months. The couple have big news to share including a relocation, a job announcement, and the fact that they're getting ready to restart their journey (which they had to take a brief pause from since September).

Watch their video to find out their latest news.


Watch the video:

In this video you'll hear Bret and Stephen discuss:

Update on their surrogacy journey and their move back to New York City (0:04)

Why the husbands took a break in their baby journey (0:50)

The husbands discuss the refinancing option that is helping them cover the next steps of surrogacy (2:00)

Bret shares some big news about his latest job (2:27)

They discuss the process of finalizing the legal documents between their surrogate and the dads-to-be (3:02)

Bret and Stephen invite folks to keep tuning in as they pick up their journey where they left off (3:45)

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